Have an open mind

I had Meningococcal Septicemia when I was nine. Ever since, I lived a life of indirect adversities.

As a hormonal teenager, I would be identified with only my circumstances as I didn't know any differently. I eventually grew up and learned to live independently. My ego was seeking attention that I once received in excess. I mixed with the wrong crowd, so to speak, and was content for a short while.

Of course, the past always repeats and bites back. The cycle got too much. I got sick of being sick.

I discovered CBT, then Zen, and then Stoicism. The combination of the three changed my entire perspective and I came to discover who I truly am.

I was, and still am, ostracized, but I learned to love myself and understand better. By loving myself, I can live life accordingly and in the Present. I have become Enlightened. I strive to help myself and others when possible, refraining from identifying with the pain-body.

I also strive to meet the four virtues of Stoicism, lest I return to the place I was once at.

My advice for overcoming any adversity in life: have an open mind and truly come to realize the identification of the mind. Only once one has disassociated from the pain-body can one become enlightened, and live a virtuous/fruitful life.

By Joshua Ford

Age 21

Male

England.